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Divorce & Family Law Blog

Welcome to the divorce blog. You’ll find information on a broad range of topics related to divorce, support payments, child custody, and other family law topics.
newly married and dont want ex to have access to money
December 8, 2025
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“Can My Ex Come After My New Spouse’s Income?”

“I pay child support and recently got remarried. Can my ex come after me for more child support, including my new spouse’s income?” ...
who gets custody of pets
December 2, 2025
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Does California Have Pet Custody Laws?

Pet custody is an evolving legal area. A few states have legislation to distinguish pets from other assets and to protect their rights. ...
should you choose mediation or arbitration
August 21, 2025
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How Are Mediation and Arbitration Different?

Divorce doesn’t necessarily need to take place in court, there are other options, and two popular choices are mediation and arbitration. ...
can you make a big purchase
August 3, 2025
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Can You Buy A House During A Divorce?

You may need a new place to live after ending your marriage, but it may not be the right time to buy a house during ...
cannabis use and custody
July 9, 2025
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Marijuana and Child Custody

Recreational marijuana has been legal in California for a year and a half, how does this newfound status impact child custody disputes? ...
DIY divorce in California
June 5, 2025
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Pro Se: A Closer Look At DIY Divorce

Do-it-Yourself divorce has never been more accessible than it is now. But just because you can, doesn’t always mean you should. ...
making mistakes in divorce ca affect your finances
May 29, 2025
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High Asset Divorce Mistakes

Every divorce has a lot at stake, but high asset divorce presents its own unique problems. Here are some costly common mistakes people make. ...
how are they treated in property division
May 21, 2025
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Gift or Inheritance? Does That Matter For Your Divorce Settlement?

“I’m married. Say my wife got a ‘gift’ but it’s called an ‘inheritance’ even though her parents are still alive. Is that an actual ‘gift’ ...
motion to enforce child support payments

What Do You Do When Your Ex Won’t Make Child Support Payments?

California law provides guidelines for courts to use in determining and setting child support payment amounts. ...
consequences to moving out of shared home during divorce
April 30, 2025
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What Are The Consequences Of Moving Out During Divorce?

Leaving the marital home without having a strategy in place, can create a significant disadvantage throughout the rest of the divorce process. ...
what not to do in california divorce
April 24, 2025
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Things You Should Never Do During Divorce

People damage their own cases in countless ways. To help minimize that, here are eight things you should never do during divorce. ...
do I have recourse if I disagree with attorney
March 18, 2025
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What If You Disagree With Your Divorce Attorney?

In general, it’s a good idea to have representation during a divorce. The process often gets twisted quickly, and having a professional guide usually saves ...
who gets to keep the engagement ring
March 5, 2025
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Do You Have To Give Back An Engagement Ring?

CALLER: “So my fiancé and I were given a ring from a family friend. The ring is in her name from her husband and then ...
discovery tools in a contested divorce
February 26, 2025
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Types of Divorce Discovery Tools

In contested divorces, discovery may prove incredibly valuable. Discovery compels each side to reveal what evidence and info they have. ...
when does an ex qualify for your pension
February 14, 2025
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How Are Pensions Divided During Divorce?

CALLER: “I was just wondering how a pension works? If one person has a pension, and the other doesn’t, do they get some of that ...
divorce stats in january
January 9, 2025
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Is January Divorce Month?

Over recent years, January has become known by many as “divorce month,” but just how accurate is that unflattering title? ...
non-biological parents
January 2, 2025
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What Is A De Facto Parent?

Not everyone who cares for a child is a biological parent. In some cases, the courts name a de facto parent. Here’s what that means.That’s ...
how do prenups and postnups work
December 18, 2024
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The Awkward Conversation of Prenups and Postnups

Prenuptial agreements are often the prudent move before marriage. So, how do you ask for one? It’s often an uncomfortable conversation. ...
will you be on the hook for their debt?
November 21, 2024
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During Legal Separation, Are You Responsible For Your Spouse’s Debt?

Marriage means intertwining two lives. When a marriage ends, divorce is the process of untangling them. Part of that means dividing up any shared assets ...
help exchanges go smoother
October 30, 2024
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Helpful Tips For Smooth Custody Exchanges

After a divorce, you may never want to see your ex again, but if you have kids, meeting during custody exchanges is likely going to ...
things you didn't know about divorce
October 9, 2024
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Scary Divorce Facts You Should Know

You have a great deal to consider when ending a marriage, and not to pile on, but there are a handful of scary divorce facts ...
if you want to get divorced can your spouse stop you
August 15, 2024
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Can Your Spouse Prevent A Divorce? No-Fault Divorce

It’s the stuff of melodramatic TV movies, being trapped in a loveless marriage. But can your spouse actually prevent you from getting a divorce? ...
community property and it's affect on debt
August 12, 2024
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How Is Credit Card Debt Divided During Divorce?

If you file for divorce and share credit card debt with your spouse, in the state of California, you are equally liable for paying it ...
is gray divorce different than other divorces
August 6, 2024
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What is a Gray Divorce?

Couples ending marriages later in life face a number of unique challenges and concerns. Here’s what you need to know about gray divorce. ...
property equity in divorce
July 9, 2024
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“If I Leave the House, Do I Lose My Equity?”

This is a complicated situation that encompasses domestic violence, home equity, and what to do if you can’t go to the authorities. ...
do i have to have a divorce lawyer
June 25, 2024
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“Do I Need A Divorce Attorney If My Ex Has One?”

Going up against a divorce attorney without your own representation puts you at a serious disadvantage. Our founder explains why. ...
what is the different between annulment and divorce

How to Qualify For An Annulment

There are two options to end a marriage. Divorce or annulment. Divorce is by far the more common choice because qualifying for an annulment is ...
can i keep her from taking my kid
June 5, 2024
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“She Wants to Move My Kid Out Of State”

CALLER: “My Baby mama is trying to move to California for a job and she’s trying to take my kid with her. We have joint ...
cohabitation and modifying spousal support

Post-Divorce Cohabitation And Its Effect on Spousal Support

If your divorce requires spousal support, making payments while knowing your ex is living with someone else may be a bitter pill to swallow. You ...
what is the date of separation
May 21, 2024
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Date of Separation in California

The date of separation has a huge impact on divorce, but a significant change to California law is about to alter the landscape. ...
What If One Spouse Owns the Home Before Marriage?
April 25, 2024
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Moore Marsden, Shared Homes, And Divorce

A house is the biggest purchase most of us make. What happens if we own a home, marry, then divorce? That’s where Moore Marsden comes ...
finances post divorce
April 3, 2024
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Rebuilding Finances Post-Divorce

During a divorce you lose assets you likely need to replace. Rebuilding your finances post-divorce should be a huge priority. ...
how does social security work property division
March 24, 2024
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Social Security And Divorce

Divorce impacts almost every facet of your life, and that includes Social Security. Here’s what you need to know about the changes you face. ...
uncontested divorce in san diego california
March 12, 2024
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Uncontested Divorce Questions Answered

Not every divorce devolves into a heated courtroom battle. When spouses see eye-to-eye, uncontested divorce is often a viable option. ...
Can You File For Bankruptcy During Divorce?

Can You File For Bankruptcy During Divorce?

Bankruptcy impacts every facet of your life. Your marriage feels the brunt, and so does the process of ending it. Does bankruptcy change divorce? ...
if you get divorced can it affect your job
February 28, 2024
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Can You Be Fired For Getting A Divorce?

What we do outside of the office can have a big impact on our work. Even though we try not to, we often bring the ...
does the person who files for divorce have an advantage
February 14, 2024
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Should You File For Divorce First?

Whether or not to file for divorce is a big question, but another is whether or not you should file for divorce first, before your ...
Why Does Divorce Take So Long in California?
February 7, 2024
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Why Does Divorce Take So Long in California?

The short answer is that there’s a lot to deal with when dissolving a marriage. As usual, the full answer is much longer. ...
when he leaves town can I move him out
January 30, 2024
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Can I Move Out All His Stuff and Change The Locks?

CALLER: “I am…so over my husband right now. To sum this up, we have no kids. I own the house. I’ve always owned it and ...
access divorce records
January 23, 2024
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Are Divorce Records Public?

The paparazzi probably doesn’t hound you and follow your every move, but that doesn’t mean privacy during divorce is important to you. ...
what are the steps to get divorced
January 16, 2024
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7 Steps To Divorce In California

Step 1: File petition. 2: Serve spouse. 3: Respond to summons. 4: Discovery. 5: Temporary orders. 6: Settlement /negotiation. 7: Sign and file final papers. ...
types of separations in CA

What Is Legal Separation in California?

A legal separation is a formal and legally binding agreement that divides debt, assets, and property between spouses; it will also address the issues of ...
How Does Jurisdiction Affect Your Divorce?
November 9, 2023
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How Does Jurisdiction Affect Divorce?

While any number of factors go into pursuing a divorce, there’s much more to deal with when it comes to who has jurisdiction. ...
do i have to pay for the house after we get divorced
November 1, 2023
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We Got Divorced, Why Am I Still On The Hook For The Home Loan?

CALLER: “I got divorced back in 2011. My ex-husband and I owned a home together, which we still do. He was willing to release his ...
how do you divorce someone from another
October 3, 2023
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How Do You Divorce A Spouse From a Foreign Country?

Ending a marriage is complicated in the best of times, but what happens to the process you have a spouse from a foreign country? ...
can a business be divided in divorce
August 2, 2023
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When Married Business Partners Divorce

During a marriage, your life becomes intertwined with that of your spouse, but what about spouses who are also business partners? ...
courthouse
July 25, 2023
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“Can I Reuse A Divorce Decree?”

CALLER: “I married my ex-husband and remarried him after we were divorced. He thinks that our first divorce decree settlement is null and void because ...
hire child custody attorney
July 12, 2023
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Finding a Child Custody Lawyer

Finding the best child custody lawyer for your case is one of the most important things you’ll ever do. Here’s how to go about it. ...
access my pension during divorce
June 27, 2023
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RADIO: “How long until my spouse qualifies for my pension?”

Retirement benefits like pensions often play a huge part in divorce settlements. But how long do you have to stay married until they kick in? ...
california Child Support Formula
June 6, 2023
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Breaking Down The Child Support Formula

California’s child support formula is calculated with an actual mathematical equation. It gets complicated, so let us break down all the pieces. ...