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Divorce & Family Law Blog

Welcome to the divorce blog. You’ll find information on a broad range of topics related to divorce, support payments, child custody, and other family law topics.
should you choose mediation or arbitration
August 21, 2025
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How Are Mediation and Arbitration Different?

Divorce doesn’t necessarily need to take place in court, there are other options, and two popular choices are mediation and arbitration.
can you make a big purchase
August 3, 2025
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Can You Buy A House During A Divorce?

You may need a new place to live after ending your marriage, but it may not be the right time to buy a house during a divorce.
how does weed affect custody
July 9, 2025
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Marijuana and Child Custody: Can I Still Smoke Weed?

Recreational marijuana has been legal in California for a year and a half, how does this newfound status impact child custody disputes?
DIY divorce in California
June 5, 2025
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Pro Se: A Closer Look At DIY Divorce

Do-it-Yourself divorce has never been more accessible than it is now. But just because you can, doesn’t always mean you should.
making mistakes in divorce ca affect your finances
May 29, 2025
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High Asset Divorce Mistakes

Every divorce has a lot at stake, but high asset divorce presents its own unique problems. Here are some costly common mistakes people make.
how are they treated in property division

Gift or Inheritance? Does That Matter For Your Divorce Settlement?

“I’m married. Say my wife got a ‘gift’ but it’s called an ‘inheritance’ even though her parents are still alive. Is that an actual ‘gift’ or is it really an
motion to enforce child support payments

My Ex Isn’t Making Child Support Payments

California law provides guidelines for courts to use in determining and setting child support payment amounts.
consequences to moving out of shared home during divorce
April 30, 2025
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What Are The Consequences Of Moving Out During Divorce?

Leaving the marital home without having a strategy in place, can create a significant disadvantage throughout the rest of the divorce process.
what not to do in california divorce
April 24, 2025
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Things You Should Never Do During Divorce

People damage their own cases in countless ways. To help minimize that, here are eight things you should never do during divorce.
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April 3, 2025
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Custody Modification: What If Your Kids Hate Living With Your Ex?

There are bound to be clashes as the custodial parent enforces the rules while the other gets to be the “fun parent.”
child support after 18
March 26, 2025
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Statute Of Limitations on College Education

CALLER: “Per the decree, my ex and I share college expenses for our children. So my question is, considering one of them is about to turn 22 and hasn’t even
do I have recourse if I disagree with attorney
March 18, 2025
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What If You Disagree With Your Divorce Attorney?

In general, it’s a good idea to have representation during a divorce. The process often gets twisted quickly, and having a professional guide usually saves time, money, and hassle. That
who gets to keep the engagement ring

Do You Have To Give Back An Engagement Ring?

CALLER: “So my fiancé and I were given a ring from a family friend. The ring is in her name from her husband and then he passed away, so she
discovery tools in a contested divorce
February 26, 2025
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Types of Divorce Discovery Tools

In contested divorces, discovery may prove incredibly valuable. Discovery compels each side to reveal what evidence and info they have.
avoidable missteps in child custody
February 19, 2025
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Missteps That Hurt Your Custody Case

It’s easy to make mistakes that hurt child custody cases, but here are a few common missteps that can sink a case and how to avoid them.
when does an ex qualify for your pension

How Are Pensions Divided During Divorce?

CALLER: “I was just wondering how a pension works? If one person has a pension, and the other doesn’t, do they get some of that or not until they start
can you alter a divorce decree
January 23, 2025
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What If You Made A Mistake On Your Divorce Decree?

CALLER: “My divorce was finalized in 2010 and in the division of assets it was actually pretty amicable. However, there was not language in the decree for her to refinance
divorce stats in january
January 9, 2025
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Is January Divorce Month?

Over recent years, January has become known by many as “divorce month,” but just how accurate is that unflattering title?
how do prenups and postnups work

The Awkward Conversation of Prenups and Postnups

Prenuptial agreements are often the prudent move before marriage. So, how do you ask for one? It’s often an uncomfortable conversation.
will you be on the hook for their debt?
November 21, 2024
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During Legal Separation, Are You Responsible For Your Spouse’s Debt?

Marriage means intertwining two lives. When a marriage ends, divorce is the process of untangling them. Part of that means dividing up any shared assets you amass together. Another unfortunate
help exchanges go smoother
October 30, 2024
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Helpful Tips For Smooth Custody Exchanges

After a divorce, you may never want to see your ex again, but if you have kids, meeting during custody exchanges is likely going to happen.
things you didn't know about divorce
October 9, 2024
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Scary Divorce Facts You Should Know

You have a great deal to consider when ending a marriage, and not to pile on, but there are a handful of scary divorce facts to be aware of.
how are military pensions divided in california
September 12, 2024
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How Is A Military Pension Divided During Divorce?

Military service complicates many relationships. It also complicates the divorce process. One area that often gets twisted is military pensions.
special master home sale in divorce
August 22, 2024
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Avoiding Foreclosure If Your Ex Won’t Sell Your Home

When an ex refuses to sell a home, a number of issues large. But what can you do? How can you protect yourself against foreclosure in divorce?
if you want to get divorced can your spouse stop you
August 15, 2024
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Can Your Spouse Prevent A Divorce? No-Fault Divorce

It’s the stuff of melodramatic TV movies, being trapped in a loveless marriage. But can your spouse actually prevent you from getting a divorce?
community property and it's affect on debt
August 12, 2024
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How Is Credit Card Debt Divided During Divorce?

If you file for divorce and share credit card debt with your spouse, in the state of California, you are equally liable for paying it off.
is gray divorce different than other divorces
August 6, 2024
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What is a Gray Divorce?

Couples ending marriages later in life face a number of unique challenges and concerns. Here’s what you need to know about gray divorce.
child support non-biological child
July 18, 2024
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Child Support For A Non-Biological Child?

What happens if your wife shows up pregnant with someone else’s child during your divorce? Are you on the hook for child support?
property equity in divorce
July 9, 2024
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“If I Leave the House, Do I Lose My Equity?”

This is a complicated situation that encompasses domestic violence, home equity, and what to do if you can’t go to the authorities.
do i have to have a divorce lawyer
June 25, 2024
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“Do I Need A Divorce Attorney If My Ex Has One?”

Going up against a divorce attorney without your own representation puts you at a serious disadvantage. Our founder explains why.
what is the different between annulment and divorce

How to Qualify For An Annulment

There are two options to end a marriage. Divorce or annulment. Divorce is by far the more common choice because qualifying for an annulment is not easy.
can i keep her from taking my kid

“She Wants to Move My Kid Out Of State”

CALLER: “My Baby mama is trying to move to California for a job and she’s trying to take my kid with her. We have joint custody in our parenting plan.
cohabitation and modifying spousal support

Post-Divorce Cohabitation And Its Effect on Spousal Support

If your divorce requires spousal support, making payments while knowing your ex is living with someone else may be a bitter pill to swallow. You also may be able to
what is the date of separation
May 21, 2024
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Date of Separation in California

The date of separation has a huge impact on divorce, but a significant change to California law is about to alter the landscape.
how to prepare for your child custody case
May 13, 2024
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Preparing Your Custody Case

Child custody cases have a massive impact on your life and the lives of your children, so how you prepare is a matter of great importance.
What If One Spouse Owns the Home Before Marriage?
April 25, 2024
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Moore Marsden, Shared Homes, And Divorce

A house is the biggest purchase most of us make. What happens if we own a home, marry, then divorce? That’s where Moore Marsden comes in.
can cheating affect no-fault divorce
April 18, 2024
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Does Adultery Impact Divorce in Califoria?

Adultery so often strikes a fatal blow to a marriage, but how big a role does it actually play when it comes time to file for divorce?
finances post divorce
April 3, 2024
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Rebuilding Finances Post-Divorce

During a divorce you lose assets you likely need to replace. Rebuilding your finances post-divorce should be a huge priority.
preparing for divorce
March 26, 2024
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Things To Do Before Starting A Divorce

Divorce can be a highly emotional time, one full of pressure and tension, and being prepared helps make sure nothing gets lost along the way.
how does social security work property division
March 24, 2024
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Social Security And Divorce

Divorce impacts almost every facet of your life, and that includes Social Security. Here’s what you need to know about the changes you face.
uncontested divorce in san diego california
March 12, 2024
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Uncontested Divorce Questions Answered

Not every divorce devolves into a heated courtroom battle. When spouses see eye-to-eye, uncontested divorce is often a viable option.
Can You File For Bankruptcy During Divorce?

Can You File For Bankruptcy During Divorce?

Bankruptcy impacts every facet of your life. Your marriage feels the brunt, and so does the process of ending it. Does bankruptcy change divorce?
if you get divorced can it affect your job
February 28, 2024
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Can You Be Fired For Getting A Divorce?

What we do outside of the office can have a big impact on our work. Even though we try not to, we often bring the weight of our home lives
does the person who files for divorce have an advantage
February 14, 2024
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Should You File For Divorce First?

Whether or not to file for divorce is a big question, but another is whether or not you should file for divorce first, before your spouse.
Why Does Divorce Take So Long in California?
February 7, 2024
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Why Does Divorce Take So Long in California?

The short answer is that there’s a lot to deal with when dissolving a marriage. As usual, the full answer is much longer.
when he leaves town can I move him out
January 30, 2024
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Can I Move Out All His Stuff and Change The Locks?

CALLER: “I am…so over my husband right now. To sum this up, we have no kids. I own the house. I’ve always owned it and lived in it since we’ve
access divorce records
January 23, 2024
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Are Divorce Records Public?

The paparazzi probably doesn’t hound you and follow your every move, but that doesn’t mean privacy during divorce is important to you.
how to divorce in CA counties
January 16, 2024
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7 Steps To Divorce In California [Infographic]

Step 1: File petition. 2: Serve spouse. 3: Respond to summons. 4: Discovery. 5: Temporary orders. 6: Settlement /negotiation. 7: Sign and file final papers.
types of separations in CA

What Is Legal Separation in California?

A legal separation is a formal and legally binding agreement that divides debt, assets, and property between spouses; it will also address the issues of support and custody. Creating a
How Does Jurisdiction Affect Your Divorce?
November 9, 2023
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How Does Jurisdiction Affect Your Divorce?

While any number of factors go into pursuing a divorce, there’s much more to deal with when it comes to who has jurisdiction.